My friends,
This booklet is an exercise in Christian
education, meditation and reflection. Death is an essential part of
life. We need to prepare for it and dispel our fear of it.
In my priestly ministry, I have never shied away
from the "grieving ministries." This may sound really odd, but if
the truth be known, I love a good funeral. This is not to say that I
am unmoved by the pain, remorse and regret. Nor am I am free from
tears at a child's funeral, or when a young mother is widowed or
when parents are buried. Rather, I love the symbolism, the hope, the
opportunity for spiritual renewal and the chance to educate people
as the most central aspects of our faith. There is something so real
and tangible about the funeral that makes people drop their
pretensions and pride and to really be open to God's message of
salvation. Perhaps, in a sense, funerals are refreshing to the
otherwise disinterested.
To understand the teachings of the Church, look
to its liturgy. If we want to know the vast richness of our faith,
study our prayers.
This booklet, and most of Prayer in the Home
Press' material focuses on our liturgical expressions of our most
profound beliefs. While the rituals cited in this booklet are not
exhaustive (the Funeral Rites are quite extensive and varied for
pastoral reasons), we have tried to include the common prayers that
you may experience in the funeral rites. The liturgy is explained
and opened up, the signs and symbols of the Rites are
explained and the responsibilities of the faithful are explored.
Hopefully, this booklet will help get you ready
for the inevitable experience of the funeral -- other's and your
own.
--Fr. David